Lots of lives have been ruined by regrets and I really don’t want to join that squad but it turns out that I made a lot of mistakes in my life that don’t just mess up my life but others as well. I am so complicated as a person that I don’t understand myself sometimes and it’s really strange. A little over three years ago, I started dating someone even though I hadn’t resolved all my personality complications and everything was going great until it wasn’t anymore. I was reminded of all the work on myself I was yet to do and now I regret ruining a really nice guys life.

So you don’t end up like me, make sure you’re really healed before you join your life to someone else’s. The only person you can approach with all your complications is God. He made you and He has the owner’s manual when it comes to you. The people around you don’t have that and so please be honest with yourself at all times. It would get you out of a lot of issues. We all have this thing we call that “small voice” in our heads, it’s usual God’s spirit cautioning us about moves we’re about to make that He sees won’t help us. If I’d listened all those years ago, I wouldn’t be sitting here writing a post about regret.

I don’t regret the time we spent together because we had a blast together. I only regret not waiting to really heal before taking that next step.